Thursday, September 20, 2012

the self loathing Narcissist

Many think Narcissm is being pretentious, or in love with one self. True Narcisstic Personality Disorder is quite the opposite. The need to lie and be seen as perfect is because truly Narcissists loathe themselves and think of themselves as defective. They don't believe they deserve love and that's why any true intimacy is shown, they are at a complete loss as how to handle it. They lie about themselves, pretend to be things they are not to gain the narcisstic supply they need to feel even keeled but, they never truly feel loved, nor do they know how to love. They are empty shells of a person and anyone involved with them is there to serve a distinct purpose; sex, money, supply and for the Narcissist to control so, that he believes he has some sense of power and he isn't the insignificant person he knows that he is. Here is an article from a diagnosed man with NPD. This article will show you their perspective and why their thinking is flawed. Don't try to hard to get inside a Narcissist's head, I have been there, it is a scary place to be. Much like a homicide detective must think like a murderer to discover the truth, I have thought like the Narcissist for survival techniques. The cost? I had taken on his sickness and was repulsed by his way of thinking but, it was only then that I could calculate his next move, protect myself and maintain my sanity (while temporarily thinking insanely).

http://goodmenproject.com/the-good-life/mental-illness-2/not-all-narcissists-love-what-they-see-in-the-mirror/#0qoyUA5zzf50QdiK.01

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